How to Fix Entitled Behavior
and Become Worthy of a Mistress
Entitlement is the rot that destroys submission from the inside out.
It’s the shadow that whispers, “You deserve her attention,” instead of,
“You must earn her attention.”
But the truth is simple:
A submissive is not defined by desire.
A submissive is defined by discipline.
Entitlement kills that discipline.
If you want to fix entitled behavior—
if you want to rebuild yourself into someone a Mistress would actually consider—
you must unlearn weakness and relearn service.
Here is how.
1. Accept that you are not owed anything.
Not her time.
Not her attention.
Not her dominance.
Not her praise.
Not her body.
Not her energy.
A Mistress chooses who receives her power.
When you internalize this truth, entitlement dies and authentic submission begins.
2. Replace expectations with offerings.
Instead of asking,
“Why isn’t she giving me more?”
Ask:
“What am I giving her?”
Your worth is measured in:
- consistency
- reliability
- tribute
- obedience
- respect
- discipline
A submissive offers, they do not demand.
3. Stop leading with want. Lead with willingness.
“I want you to…”
“I need you to…”
“I hope you will…”
Entitled language.
Shift your vocabulary:
“I am available to serve.”
“I am ready when you command.”
“I offer myself to your use.”
Submission is shown in tone long before it is proven in action.
4. Learn to wait—without whining.
A Mistress responds when she chooses, not when you crave contact.
If waiting feels uncomfortable, sit with the discomfort.
Patience is not passive.
Patience is obedience without reassurance.
5. Pay tribute without complaint.
Tribute is not a transaction.
It is a gesture of loyalty.
A financial extension of worship.
A sacrifice that proves you’re not here to take—you’re here to serve.
If you cannot give without resentment, you are not ready to receive.
6. Show consistency, not bursts of enthusiasm.
Entitled subs show up only when horny.
Devoted subs show up even when horny, tired, frustrated, or busy.
Consistency is the cure for entitlement because consistency requires discipline—
and discipline breaks ego.
7. Take correction without ego.
A Mistress’s guidance is a gift.
If she corrects you, it means there is potential worth molding.
Respond with gratitude, not defensiveness:
“Yes, Mistress.”
“Thank you, Mistress.”
“I will adjust immediately.”
Correction is not shame—
it is refinement.
8. Serve without needing applause.
Stop chasing gold stars.
Stop requiring validation.
Submission is not done for praise.
Submission is done because it is your role.
If she praises you, it is a luxury—
not a requirement.
9. Build a devotion ritual.
Entitled subs drift.
Disciplined subs anchor themselves.
Daily ritual ideas:
- morning kneel & affirmation
- sending a daily respectful check-in
- offering a standing tribute
- a task report or service update
- nightly gratitude reflection
Structure kills entitlement by training the mind toward obedience, not craving.
10. Understand the hierarchy—and embrace it.
She is the top.
You are the bottom.
She leads.
You follow.
She decides.
You obey.
Hierarchy is not humiliation—
it is liberation from the burden of decision.
When you accept your place, entitlement dissolves.
The Transformation
To fix entitlement, you must shift from:
“I want.”
to
“I offer.”
From:
“Give me.”
to
“Take from me.”
From:
“I deserve.”
to
“I serve.”
This is how a selfish boy becomes a submissive.
This is how a demanding pet becomes property.
This is how a entitled mind becomes truly, deeply, beautifully obedient.
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